Getting ready for a boudoir session is sooo exciting (and let’s face it, totally nerve – wracking!) Whether you booked this for yourself or as a gift for someone special, I want you to feel prepared and confident walking into your session. Boudoir isn’t just about stunning photos, and it’s certainly not about “looking sexy” — it’s about celebrating YOU. So let’s make sure you’re feeling amazing from the moment you arrive, and all the way through.
Another thing I want to touch on real quick – I am a safe space. I want to reassure you that you can trust me. I will always use neutral and respectful language, and I strive to provide a relaxed, fun experience, led by what you are comfortable with. Throughout the shoot I will guide and direct poses, but my main goal is to make sure you are within your comfort zone! And rest assured, your images will never be shared unless you give permission.
So! With that said, here are my top tips and a little encouragement to help you prep for your big day:
Taking care of yourself in the days leading up to your session makes a big difference. Here’s what I recommend:
Your wardrobe is where the magic happens! And a boudoir shoot doesn’t necessarily need to be sexy lingerie. You can wear anything that makes you feel beautiful! Choose pieces that make you feel like your best, most confident self. In other words, if you are unsure about an outfit, ditch it for something you know you love!
Pro tip: Pack your outfits the night before and make sure everything’s ready to go. Feeling organized helps you relax.
The morning of your session is all about keeping things light and easy. Here’s what you can do:
Above all else, I want you to know that this session is about a celebration of who you are in this moment. Your beauty, your strength, and your story. It’s okay to feel a little unsure—most people do at first! But remember:
Boudoir is such a unique and powerful experience—it’s all about stepping out of your comfort zone and embracing your gorgeous self. When you walk into your session, just know this: I’m your biggest cheerleader and your hype squad. I cannot wait to see you absolutely shine. Bring your sparkle, and let’s make some magic happen!